watermargin-s:

[pm] This was a mistake …Yes, but I don’t know that you can see it as one-sided as that. I’m positive that at least Hunter won’t try to kill my family For a lot of reasons I did know him for a long time and we were very close once. I should have been able to notice that signs and speak up about them.

I see. I would say that he is a lot more than nice though. He’s wonderful and I hope I can have him in my life for however long my life is.

[pm] I don’t know what to say Victims People who have experienced abuse don’t always recognize the signs when they’re in the relationship but if they do, they will justify it so that the actions their abuser takes will make sense — and the excuses vary, they do it because they care about/love me to I can’t leave them, they need me to they’re a good person deep-down and they have good intentions, they’re not always like this, they’ll change. And some don’t speak out for these reasons, it’s a coping mechanism or because they’re afraid to. What happened to you and how you handled it isn’t your fault.

I hope so too!

watermargin-s:

[pm] I mean finding that balance between what you and your partner want out of a relationship. I haven’t had romantic relationships like this he doesn’t count, but I’ve had…friendships where this person would mock me for voicing concerns. Eventually I just stopped and did whatever he told me too and it made sense at the time because I thought he cared about me. He would always said he knew me best. I thought I knew him too Not that I mind doing that if I really cared about a person, but I like having that choice.

Yes, Hunter! Do you know him? Are you friends with him? It’s always nice to meet the friends of the people you care about.

[pm] I think any relationship, not just romantic or platonic, is a series of trials and errors with open communication, reciprocation and mutual agreements with disagreements every now and again; a relationship between two or more people is constantly evolving as we grow as individuals, independently and within the relationship(s). If there is someone in your life that is controlling you or your behaviors, that — to me — seems like an already unbalanced, potentially abusive relationship. It also sounds like he was also manipulating and gaslighting you. Absolutely no one should ever take away or overtake your ability to have control of yourself, not even someone you care about. Is encountering another person like that friend a concern you have in regards to the idea of entertaining a romantic relationship?

I do and I’d say…we’re friendly acquaintances, I think he trusts more than other members of local law enforcement but that wouldn’t necessarily make us friends. He’s nice though. 

djerinyes:

That’s exactly what cleaning does. A clutter-free environment allows a clutter-free mind, and the physical activity promotes a good mood in the same way jogging does. 

Exercise is very important but I’m slightly concerned you’re doing it twice a day when you already work long hours. Do you ever struggle to keep weight on?  

Yeah! Exactly!

No, I don’t struggle with that. I’m actually… Well, you saw me. I’m, uh lean, muscular and…I have a good amount of fat percentage in my body, a healthy amount that’s appropriate for the lifestyle I’m living. The last two months, or three really, weren’t so great for me but that’s because I had surgery and was recovering Why?

periodpieceprescott:

[pm] So far you’ve given me no reason to not trust you. You don’t seem like someone who would hurt my kind.

I’m a vampire, but I promise you I mean no harm to any human. I only drink the blood of animals.

[pm] Ah, well Good thing I’m not actually any

So… Like that family of vampires in Twilight? You drink the blood of elk?

What type of vampire are you?

dustin-parrish:

Apparently I went over the minutes of my plan and so got a huge bill, I don’t even know…

Ouch. I’m sorry to hear that, bud. Are you going to upgrade your plan to unlimited or look into getting a plan with higher minutes?

norapinepaints:

[pm] Oh. Uh. Wouldn’t it be funnier if they hear someone whispering ‘I’m watching you.’ and then start laughing maniacally? And when they wake up they might pee themselves! Or they fall out of bed! Or there’s actually a monster waiting for them when they wake up so they scream super loudly! That’s humor.

[pm] No, that’s actually happened to me and that’s not funny, it’s terrifying— I realize that to you it would be. 

Good thing humour is subjective, then!